Gratitude Experiment: Day 53

Today I’m considering being thankful for something that hasn’t yet happened.  In fact, I am committed to expressing gratitude for something that I have no rational, direct knowledge about how it’s going to turn out. I’m taking a great leap of faith.  Why?

Because I have a choice. I could choose to worry and fret about how this situation is going to turn out. I could focus on the worse possible scenario.  Ever done that before?  Yeah, me too.  Doesn’t feel good does it? And, it rarely ever turns out as bad as you imagined. But you’ve wasted so much energy and precious life worrying about something that will never come to pass.  Or, even if it does, it’s usually not nearly as horrible as you pictured it.  You got through it somehow, right? And maybe it turned out really well.

So I’m going to take a different approach today.  I’m going to choose to focus on the best possible outcome for all concerned.   As Deepak Chopra says, “we live in a universe of all possibilities.”  We can chose the possibility that we are supported by a universe that loves and cares for us.  We can choose the possibility that the universe responds to our energy and reflects into our life circumstances that reflect our core beliefs.  In fact, we have the capacity to co-create our lives.

That’s what I’m choosing today.  I’m choosing to rejoice that the best possible outcome is now occuring for all concerned. I’m choosing to trust the Divine Life-Force that provides abundantly for all life forms.  When I do, I am aligning myself with the energy of abundance, joy, well-being and harmony.  That’s the energy that I want to co-create my life from.

Try it.  Think about something that you have no idea how it’s going to turn out. Something that normally would cause you to worry and fret about.  Now, make a conscious choice to be grateful for the wonderful outcome that is happening for you and all concerned.  Choose to see the perfect outcome.  Choose to live in the energy of rejoicing and gratitude.  Choose to trust that the universe loves you and provides abundantly for you.  Let yourself feel it.   Feel that you are a giant magnet pulling toward you this wonderful outcome.  Then, let go, and go about your day focusing on all the wonderful things…big and small… that have already manifested in your life.

As always, let me know how it goes.

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Today I am grateful that I am now receiving an offer of over $10,000 for my entire inventory of parenting books from an appreciative source who can get them out to bless the lives of many other moms.

I am grateful for the wonderful visit of a dear old friend I haven’t seen in a long time.

I am grateful that my kids are having a wonderful day at school.

I am grateful for the fact that I have choice and I am a co-creator in my life.

Gratitude Experiment: Day 35

Continuing on the theme from yesterday, I wanted to expand on the idea of writing goals and intentions for the New Year from a place of gratitude.   When you take some time to turn within and unify with the love and gratitude in your heart, you are actually connecting with the creative energy of the Universe.  It’s the same creative energy that creates, guides and governs the movement of the stars, solar systems and galaxies.

It’s this same creative energy that all great inventors and creators like Edison, the Wright Brothers, Tesla, and Jonas Salk accessed to catch the vision of the formula, device or medicine that still benefits humankind today.   They all began with the end in mind.  They’re weren’t certain how they were going to get there. They simply had faith that the way would make itself known soon enough if they just kept the vision forefront in their minds and moved forward in action.

How do you have faith that “the way will make itself known”?  That’s where gratitude comes in.  The energy of gratitude says to the universe, “Thank you for the vision. I understand that having the vision is simply the flip-side of the actual realization of (whatever it is). I am so grateful for this wonderful new good that is in the process of manifesting and I am grateful for being Divinely guided to do whatever I need to do in the process. I am grateful that this is already complete in the mind of God, therefore it is already done. The actual manifestation is just the details.”

And, with this energy of true gratitude comes a feeling of elation, of celebration. We allow ourselves to jump up and down with excitement that it is “a given” and we move forward always listening to our inner guidance.

Ernest Holmes, a pioneer in the field of Law of Attraction, wrote in his masterwork, The Science of Mind, “Faith looks to the invisible, and instead of seeing a void, fastens it’s gaze on a solid reality.”  Take that idea with you into your heart as you write your intentions or vision for the New Year.  And let me know how it goes for you.

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My gratitudes for yesterday…

I am so grateful for all the new people who have joined us here on the Gratitude Experiment and who are sharing some really amazing things. It’s so inspiring to me and to all of us!

I’m grateful that my little Gratitude Experiment video came out so well! I’m really happy about it. If you haven’t seen it yet, go to http://www.youtube.com/user/VictoriaZLC and take a peek. Then, forward it to everyone you know!

I’m grateful for my Keys group and the love and support we offer each other.

I’m grateful for getting a terrific sitter at the last minute!

Master the Manifestation Process with this Daily Tool

No doubt about it, it takes daily focused attention to move away from the mind-set of the world which is based on lack, limitation and suffering…and create a new mind-set based on a Spiritual awareness of limitless love, joy and plenty.  However, this is exactly the consciousness we must embrace in order to attract the good that we seek.  In fact, we must really deepen our understanding of the Law of Attraction principles and energetically magnetize our heart’s desire in order for it to manifest on a permanent basis.

Well, good news…I’ve been developing a daily tool for doing this more easily and more completely…and I’m just introducing it today. It’s my Daily Manifestation Tips and, for a limited time, it is free!  Simply go to www.ManifestYourGood.com and sign up for it in the opt-in box.

Imagine every day you will find, in your inbox a simple, yet potent focus tip containing a powerful idea to help you master the manifestation process.  In addition, there will be an affirmation for you to repeat throughout the day to help incorporate the idea deeply in your consciousness.

Unlike other fluffy, “feel-good” positive thoughts and motivational quotes, these manifestation tips are transformational tools that will powerfully activate the manifestation process in your life.

Again, I’m able to offer this benefit free of charge for a limited time.  (and, in just the first 12 hours several dozen individuals have already signed up!).  So, don’t wait…go and sign up now before I realize I should really be charging for this :-)

And many blessings on your journey of manifesting a magnificent life!

Another Amazing Woman Talks about My Work

Carol Allen, an amazing woman, master relationship coach, Vedic Astrologer and friend had this amazing thing to say about me and my work…

“I’ve known Victoria for over ten years and I’ve seen her make ALL of her own dreams come true – living a life most people can’t imagine – the perfect husband, gorgeous twin daughters, fulfilling work with an abundant lifestyle. And she tells me it was years and years of struggle before any of that came to be – and that everything she did to transform her own life she teaches in this ‘Manifest Your Good’ program. I’m a witness – this woman knows her stuff and is so sincere in wanting to help. Lots of people claim to have it all figured out, but when you scratch the surface, their own lives don’t work. Victoria totally walks her talk, and can help you no matter where things are and where you wish they were. Get with her and stand back and be amazed…”

Carol Allen, author of “Love Is In The Stars – The Wise Woman’s Astrological Guide To Men.”

Wow, huh?

Why Isn't the Law of Attraction Working for Me? Part 2

Here is part 2 in our discussion about why some may not be having as much success using the principles of manifestation. If you missed Part 1, scroll down to the next entry. Then come back here for my 3-step plan for applying the Law of Attraction effectively in every area of your life.

Discovering and transforming limiting core beliefs is absolutely essential if you want to manifest a more expansive and abundant life. The good news is that you can do it. This is totally in your power. The reality is that it takes some work. However, I’ve come up with a 3-step plan that will make that “work” a little easier…and very effective.

1. Inner Wisdom Journaling. One of the best ways that I have found for uncovering deeply held beliefs is to practice “inner wisdom guided” journaling. Give yourself a good 30 to 60 minutes and a quiet place where you will not be disturbed during this process.

Before you begin, close your eyes and take several deep, cleansing and relaxing breaths. Then, ask your inner wisdom to guide you to the deep recesses of your mind…the nooks and crannies of memories, past hurts and childhood “lessons.” Visualize your inner wisdom shining a brilliant flash light into these areas. Take your time with this part of the process.

Then, when you feel ready, open your eyes and pick up your pencil. Allow your hand to be guided as it writes…without editing…onto the page. Keep writing. The more you write, the clearer things becomes. Neatness counts against you here. Be messy. Fill up several pages. Fill up an entire journal if you need to. No one will read it but you. If you’re messy enough, no one will understand it but you!

2. Practice Forgiveness. One of the blocks I see preventing people from attracting what they truly desire to experience in their lives is the energy of resentment and regret. Whether it’s resentment against some person or situation, or regret over your own past mistakes, it’s an energy that will block your good from getting to you. Even though these mistakes and hurts happened in the past, they are still very much alive in the present…even if you are not consciously aware of them. And it is this energy that will choke off the growth of any new good.

Forgiveness frees you to realize your potential. When you truly forgive someone, or some situation, or yourself, you will uproot these weeds, allowing your mental garden the space it needs to blossom.

Forgiveness begins with a willingness to let go and move on. Forgiveness does not mean condoning someone’s bad behavior or inviting them over for dinner. It means you are willing to separate what someone did from who they are in truth…a human being trying to make his or her way through life and naturally making mistakes. The same goes for you. In truth, we human beings can only do the best we can with the consciousness that we have at the time. If you’ve made mistakes in your past, you can begin today to be willing to see that you did the best you possibly could given your understanding at the time.

Spend as much time as necessary in prayer, meditation, journaling, or silently blessing yourself, the situation and the other person. See yourself cutting the cord that has bound you to this person in a web of negative energy. You’ll be amazed at how light and free you feel.

3. Meditation. Learn to meditate and practice it regularly. It is in meditation that the ego’s voice will be seen for what it is…an obstacle obscuring the light of your true self.

With a regular meditation practice you will connect with your inner magnificence and begin to understand the truth that you are loved and that you deserve a love-filled, joy-filled and abundant life. You will begin to feel, on a very deep level, that a magnificent, abundant life has already been given to you. You already have the fulfillment of your heart’s desires, and you simply need to own this truth and allow it manifest in your experience. This you will begin to feel in meditation. And, after a while, that deep understanding gleaned in the 20 to 30 minutes of daily meditation will begin to seep into your subconscious, transmuting any limiting beliefs that have been hanging out there.

There are as many teachers and types of meditation as there are varieties of chocolate. I offer one in my Manifesting Your Desires Program. Find one that suits you and just do it!

Don’t allow these limiting core beliefs, regrets and resentments to rob you of the magnificent life you were meant to life. Do not delay your good one more moment. Practice these three keys and watch as the floodgates open and an abundance of love, joy, prosperity and success pours into your life. Then, you’ll be the one on Oprah sharing with the world how you’ve applied the Law of Attraction and are now experiencing the manifestation of limitless good in your life.

Many blessings.

Why Isn't the Law of Attraction Working For Me? Part 1

Since the vastly popular movie, The Secret burst onto the scene a few years ago, millions of people everywhere have been trying to figure out how to use this “Law of Attraction” thing to manifest more prosperity, love and success into their lives. Many watched Oprah’s shows featuring several individuals who used this “Law” to totally transform their lives. The problem was that many of these viewers became frustrated when it they couldn’t figure out how to use the Law of Attraction and did not have the same results as those featured in the movie and on Oprah. Ultimately many dismissed it as just “wishful thinking.”

What most seekers don’t understand is that they are already using the Law of Attraction. Unfortunately, most are using it unconsciously and attracting everything they don’t want. Even techniques taught in The Secret (like repeating positive affirmations and visualizing prosperity) don’t seem to be bringing people the prosperity, success, or love that they really want. Is this happening to you?

Or, maybe you’ve got the Law of Attraction thing down. You understand how it works and have perhaps manifested some small blessing in your life. Still, you wonder why you keep experiencing the same challenges over and over in that “problematic” area of your life. Let’s explore why that might be, and learn how you can utilize this powerful force to attract what you do want…in every area of your life.

In science, the law of attraction refers to a chemical affinity or a physical condition where “like attracts like.” Not unlike the laws of physical science, the law of attraction is very real and works in our experience exactly the same way. How? Well, because the universe is fundamentally energy. We are, therefore, fundamentally energy and our thoughts are fundamentally energy. Our predominate thoughts and our “emotionally charged” thoughts actually emit frequencies science can measure. These frequencies attract like experience in our outer world. It’s all energy. One is the inner, the other is the outer.

You are, therefore, attracting to yourself in physical experience the vibrational equivalent of your beliefs. Your present “reality” is comprised of your beliefs “in form.”

There’s a catch here however. Something most who teach about the Law of Attraction don’t talk about …

There is not sufficient energy in your occasional beliefs, your repeated affirmations, or what you are picturing during visualization to manifest as form in your experience. There simply isn’t. What does have the energy to manifest are your deeply held beliefs…and they do. You are attracting into your life experiences and conditions that match your deeply held “core beliefs.” Techniques such as repeating positive affirmations or visualization do not, on their own, transform these core beliefs.

What do I mean by deeply held core beliefs? I mean your personal world view — which you keep alive by your attitudes and perceptions as you interact with the world. Some examples might be: “The only truly wealthy people are those born into it.” Or, “It’s only who you know that matters.” Or, “The older you get the harder it is to find true love.” Or, “You’ve got to be really smart or clever to earn lots of money (and I’m not).” Or, “All good things come to an end.” These are not conscious beliefs, mind you. They live in the dark recesses of your subconscious.

Compounding the problem is that we live in a world that continually tells us we are limited, that there’s not enough to go around and that we are victims of fate and at the mercy of an unkind world.

Discovering and transforming these limiting core beliefs is absolutely essential if you want to manifest a more expansive and abundant life. The good news is that you can do it. This is totally in your power. The reality is that it takes some work. However, I’ve come up with a 3-step plan that will make that “work” a little easier…and very effective.

Join me next Monday when I detail my 3 step plan . Until then, start looking at what has been manifesting in your life up till now, and know that it is indeed a reflection of your core beliefs.

Really Nice Things Friends Have Said…

I asked some good friends of mine to comment on my Manifest Your Desires Program and here’s what they said…

“As an author and coach myself, I can tell you that Victoria’s program is absolutely transformational. She’s a master manifestor and knows the secrets for manifesting your heart’s desires. I’ve known her for over ten years, and she’s the real deal!” –Chellie Campbell, author of  The Wealthy Spirit and Zero to Zillionaire.

“Victoria’s program is beautifully transformational. She’s a master at identifying and eliminating negative core beliefs — with the most beautiful life and personal experience to back up what she teaches. Through this program, Victoria will be your spiritual mentor in your path to peace and abundance.” -Linda Sivertsen, NYT best-selling co-author of Harmonic Wealth

Gotta love friends like this.  They both are amazing women themselves and have terrific programs of their own. Check out Chellie’s website http://www.Chellie.com for her Wealthy Spirit newsletter, and Dophin Club.  And Linda’s site, http://www.dreamitgreen.comfor all her cool environmental awareness and workshops on how to get published. 

 

Welcome!

Victoria Loveland-CoenWelcome to my new blog!  Manifest Your Good is all about exploring the process of manifesting our heart’s desires.  We are using the Law of Attraction all the time.  Let’s learn to use it consciously and deliberately.  We “divinely-human” beings were given the gift of free will and dominion over our lives. We’ve just forgotten that fact.  We’ve mistakenly believed we were subject to the winds of fate, our history and our current experience.  Let us wake up together, rise above conditions and claim our divine birthright — peace, prosperity, love, success and wellbeing!